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[ur-local-dads-blog]

I think I’m finally gonna let go of this Tumblr. 

I created this account when I was 15 that was almost 6 years ago. I made it when I was sad and hurting and didn’t know where to go.This account helped me through some of my darkest days but I just think its time to let it go. Theres a ton of nostalgia here and so many friends who helped me along the way. I will never be able to tell you all how grateful I am. how you guys fuckin carried me through my younger years. This account helped me share things with my first love and you know I just need to close that chapter of my life. I need to heal. Most of my friends are no longer on this site or have created totally different accounts and now its my turn. Thank you for the love and the laughs and the hurt. Thank you for giving me a way to connect to people when I didn’t have anyone. For anyone who might be worried about me im okay. Im doing great. Its been bumpy for awhile. but I am so fucking ready to heal and close this book and begin another. thank you again for all you’ve done. 

[totally]

I think I’m finally gonna let go of this Tumblr. 

I created this account when I was 15 that was almost 6 years ago. I made it when I was sad and hurting and didn’t know where to go.This account helped me through some of my darkest days but I just think its time to let it go. Theres a ton of nostalgia here and so many friends who helped me along the way. I will never be able to tell you all how grateful I am. how you guys fuckin carried me through my younger years. This account helped me share things with my first love and you know I just need to close that chapter of my life. I need to heal. Most of my friends are no longer on this site or have created totally different accounts and now its my turn. Thank you for the love and the laughs and the hurt. Thank you for giving me a way to connect to people when I didn’t have anyone. For anyone who might be worried about me im okay. Im doing great. Its been bumpy for awhile. but I am so fucking ready to heal and close this book and begin another. thank you again for all you’ve done. 

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[sapphorb]

i read the sentence “abusers groom their character witnesses as carefully as they groom their victims” (in a comment thread in response to a “but i know [the accused] and hes such a nice man!!”) and it’s blowing my mind a weird amount even though i guess i already knew that

[should-be-sleeping]

It’s true and everyone should say it.

[nakedinasnowsuit]

Not only that, but they think about it in a conscious and deliberate way.

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[megapope]

“can’t shake the devil’s hand and say you’re only kidding” is the most concise and powerful dismissal of people who are “jokingly” racist and i can’t believe it’s from a They Might Be Giants song

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[classiclinds]

A person with an abusive nature will always register you standing up for yourself as an act of betrayal. Betray them.

[spacejelly710]

This is so important. As a good person, you may choose to stick around to prove to someone that you’re not a bad person. You have nothing to prove to a bad person. You cannot help everyone. You cannot fix everyone. It’s not your fault.

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[barbieprivilege]

my like 1% of followers who dont watch drag race still need to watch this video

[homo-seth-ual]

This moment in herstory

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[elphabaforpresidentofgallifrey]

admit it, we were all primed to hate america from the start because that fucker in Spirit: Stallion of the Cimarron tried to hurt the horse and they made sure to put that American flag RIGHT THERE IN THE SHOT and then follow it with some BLATANT AND AWFUL RACISM…..they would not have the balls to release that movie now….the bryan adams bops……the female directors….the blatant american colonialism callout…….a masterpiece of american cinema

[exigencelost]

The stark bleakness of every scene that involved white people? The total absence of mercy or respite in their colonial horsey prison camp, the lack of color, the harsh straight lines and right angles, the unforgiving sun? Whoever did the art direction for that film really said Fuck Settler Lives.

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[adayinthelesbianlife]

lesbians have more fun

[cowboyjen68]

One of my favorites.. “Woman by birth and lesbian by grace.. and if you see Grace… tell her I said ‘Hello’”

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[jodalovesstuff]

Anyone have the gif’s of the Chilean goalkeeper Christiane Endler lifting two of her teammates with ease.

I need them for um reasons lol

[moonlight-mery]

Let’s take a look at it one more time

[soothseay]

If she can lift two of them, she can lift one of me bless a big ol strong woman

Originally posted by desingyouruniverse

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[furiousgoldfish]

What kind of weak coward needs to blackmail their kid with loss of home to live in, to control their actions? what kind of sick freak can’t stand seeing a child be free in front of them, and has to put an end to it in the most cruel way imaginable? threatening abandonment and life on the street, to a child? that’s a monstrous action and it should never be normalized or common. It should not be something any parent would do to their own child.

Stop taking safety of home away from children for the sake of control and obedience, you’re fucking embarrassing yourself. There’s nobody more pathetic and disgusting than you.